What is a fetish?  Merriam-Webster describes it as “an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression.”  In English, it is an fixation that someone gets off on. 

For example, my witty, incomparable and ingenious prose may just give someone the sexual fuel they need for an especially explosive orgasm.  For the record, I’m okay with this. 

Fetishes are also known as sexual deviations or paraphilia. Paraphilia is a term coined in the 1920s by Wilhem Stekel, an Austrian psychologist and physician.  The term was later popularized by sexologist, John Money, described as, “a sexuoerotic embellishment of or alternative to the official, ideological norm.” 

Do you feel smarter?  How about sexier? 

Okay, now, we will go over the good parts, the dish, the dirty laundry.  Here is a peek at a few of the innumerable fetishes out there in the world.

Erotolalia - Also known as dirty talk

Balloon fetish - Those who engage in this form of paraphilia are called “looners”

Exhibitionism - Flashing!

Coprophilia - Speaking of “Two Girls, One Cup,” this is an interest in using…filth during sexplay

Formicophilia  - Gratification from having insects crawl on your body

Let’s talk about celebrities for a moment.  We all love or hate (while secretly loving) these people who may or may not deserve the ridiculously obsessive attention we lend them but no one can turn away from a nugget of gossip. Like they say, celebrities are just like us.  They too are amorous freaks with oddly specific sexual preferences. 

For example, Latin singer Ricky Martin is into urophilia, also known as “golden showers.”  Yep, he likes to pee on people.  Director Quentin Tarantino is well known for his podophilia, or foot fetish.  In 2009, the media was suffocated with coverage of the accidental death of actor David Carradine by autoerotic asphyxiation.  Also, I don’t want to leave here without mentioning a certain Twilight star’s hirsutophilia, or infatuation with armpit hair.  Cough cough, Kristen Stewart.  Then, there is the rumor of actor, Richard Gere, engaging in zoophilia with a hamster, “butt” that’s never been proven. 

Speaking of butt, this past year, I was fortunate enough to come in contact with a video on anal foot-fisting.That was an interesting 60 seconds of my life.  It’s pretty much what it sounds like.  Starting small, after the initial insertion of the toes into the anus, the foot, then, slowly worked its way in, until it was fully submerged.  At this point, the camera panned out to show a man and woman, the owners of the ass and foot, respectively. 

It just goes to show you there are so many different desires out there.  If you can think of it, people probably get off on it and isn’t that sexually liberating?

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An object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression

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