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How I discovered talking cures my erectile dysfunction

How I discovered talking cures my erectile dysfunction

After starting a relationship, I was forced to figure out what I needed to be sexually satisfied: deep, throbbing, open, honest and  judgment-free communication.

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How I used kink, BDSM to treat my depression and save my relationship

How I used kink, BDSM to treat my depression and save my relationship

Although I’ve always considered myself to be closer to vanilla on the kink spectrum, I’ve recently found myself being one kinky motherfucker. It started with a little roughness and led into a sadistic awakening. Now, a little puppy play has led into a budding full-time D/s relationship, and I am super excited.

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How I discovered I wasn't vanilla and got the kinky sex I really wanted

How I discovered I wasn't vanilla and got the kinky sex I really wanted

In general, I’m a pretty non-violent person. But being the deliciously kinky fuck he is, my boyfriend Bubby recently has started asking for me to be rougher during sex. By the end of our session last night, he was satisfied, bruised, bitten, sore and covered in cooled candle wax – and I was smiling a Cheshire grin. Turns out, this gentle giant has a sadistic side.

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Dumb Domme: Why I Fucking Love Rope Bondage

Dumb Domme: Why I Fucking Love Rope Bondage

Of course, the best thing about rope bondage is the end result. Seeing a lover's body crisscrossed with rope is so-fucking-hot. In my mind, there is nothing more beautiful than a man unburdened of his strength, rendered helpless, bent and bound according to my wishes. Nothing is hotter than a man who is eager to give me control, and nothing turns me on quite like taking it.

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Homme Mystere offers panties, bras, stockings and other lingerie made for men

Homme Mystere offers panties, bras, stockings and other lingerie made for men

Whether you’re a dom who’s force feminizing your pretty little sub bitch or a guy who just likes to feel soft and feminine, you know how hard it is to find lingerie that fits a guy’s body. Well, I just stumbled across a store that fixes that problem. HommeMystere is an online store that specializes in men’s hosiery and lingerie for the pretty girl in every man.

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Ideas to help you try out BDSM play (for beginners)

Ideas to help you try out BDSM play (for beginners)

Fifty Shades of Grey may not have been everything it was made out to be. But it is inspiring lots of people, who are normally pretty vanilla, to try out some BDSM. While I’m not usually excited about people randomly jumping on fads, I’m totally cool with people stepping out of their comfort zone and making their sex a little more Neapolitan.

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What is BDSM?

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This is a question I get often and the answer is simple. BDSM is an acronym that stands for Bondage Dominance Sadism & Masochism. It is a very popular subset of sexuality that deals with physical and mental restraint, dominance and submission, as well as exploring pain as it corresponds to pleasure.

When you mention BDSM people often get an image of a latex clad gimp chained to the ceiling of someone’s basement. That type of extreme play is reserved for only the top 5% of dedicated BDSMers. The other 95% plays within more common barriers. Those include handcuffs, spanking, rough sex, blindfolds and other sensory deprivation.

Though you may think it’s a very rare sexual activity, BDSM is actually quite common. A 1953 study by by Alfred Kinsey found that 95% of people had been bitten erotically. A separate study by Walter Lowe (1983) found that 28% of people had experimented with bondage. I would venture to bet that you have had an experience, maybe without realizing it.

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The Best Femdom Porn These Old Eyes Have Seen - Let's Talk About Toys

 

This week has been really interesting for me as I find myself slowly getting back into the swing of things now that I have a computer again. It feels very good to be back. I REALLY missed the massive amount of work it takes to keep this site running and sexy.

Speaking of slaves, I recently came across a website that immediately caught my attention. MenInPain.com is a website that offers only femdom porn. Admittedly femdom is definitely not my forte but I was actually quite aroused by what Men In Pain had to offer.

All of their content is 100% original and features models of varied body types and while is not a racial diverse as I would like, it does not seem as if they have a tendency to white wash.  I found the variety of BDSM kink to be astounding and even found a few activities that I had never seen on film before.

Each scene begins with both models discussion their scene and how they would like it to play out. At the end you get to meet up with our glowing performers as they talk about the scene that played out. From watching these interviews you get the feeling that these people really love what they are doing. I found that intriguing most of all as it is rare for porn performers to seem as if they enjoying anything more than paying their light bill.

If you are into femdom porn or ever wanted to take a glimpse at the world of femdom BDSM then I can not recommend MenInPain.com highly enough.

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