5 ways you can support LTASEX - Now is the time!

5 ways you can support LTASEX - Now is the time!

When my options are food and housing or a sense of self-accomplishment and the joy of helping, there’s no contest. Sadly, that’s a decision I’m going to have to start making very soon but, with your support, I might not have to.

106 ways to please your body, mind and soul

106 ways to please your body, mind and soul

The body’s ability to feel pleasure is so expansive I don’t think we’ll ever achieve full knowledge of its capabilities. Yet, even though we’ve discovered a lot of great things it can do and experience, few people explore for themselves. To help give you a few good ideas, I wanted to jump start your knowledge with an ever-expanding list of ways to please your body.

10 signs you have sexual anxiety

10 signs you have sexual anxiety

For most of my partnered sex, I’ve been plagued by a problem: a sudden rush of panic when other people initiate. For a long time, I hadn’t known what it was. Over time, though, it’s become clear that I’m suffering from pre-sex anxiety.

From my years of helping people have better sex, I know that many others suffer from the same problem. So, I wanted to offer up a few of the symptoms I’ve noticed to help you figure out if you’re dealing with the same problem.

How do you handle poly drama?

How do you handle poly drama?

In the time I’ve been living this modern poly-relationship life, I’ve been lucky to avoid outside drama. Then my boyfriend got a new boyfriend and, well, things have started to get bumpy. Luckily, I know exactly what to do: talk about it with patience, empathy and, if all else fails, kick his ass to the curb.

7 reasons slutty women are better in bed

7 reasons slutty women are better in bed

Sexually empowered women often get a bad reputation. We’re labeled as easy, trashy, dirty, loose, full of STDs -- not someone you want to sleep with. Yet, we have no trouble finding partners who are more than happy to share a bed with us and keep coming back for more. The stereotypes you’ve heard are more than outdated and inaccurate -- they entirely negate the sexy benefits of freedom, confidence, and experience in the bedroom! Lose your fear of the sexually empowered woman: sleeping with a “slut” might just be your favorite sexual memory yet! Here are 7 reasons why.

New and upcoming guest apprearances by LTASEX creator Jerome Stuart Nichols!

New and upcoming guest apprearances by LTASEX creator Jerome Stuart Nichols!

This summer has been all about reaching out to other awesome people in the sex world. I've had a ton of guests on Behind Closed Doors but I was also recently a guest on a couple of shows and I have a few appearances scheduled. Since this is my first time really branching out of LTASEX, I don't have a standard way of letting you folk know where I'm at so, for right now, I'll be keeping you updated here.

5 easy essential tips for sexier sexting

5 easy essential tips for sexier sexting

I’ll admit it, I really don’t like sexting. I mean, it can definitely be fun but most of the people who end up trying to sext me go about it all wrong. So, to save others afflicted by random questions about our attire at 3am, I thought I’d throw out a few basic guidelines for some sexting that’s actually kind of sexy and fun.

6 reasons to hire a sex worker

6 reasons to hire a sex worker

While it’s unlikely the average person would die without the help of a sex worker, there’s still plenty of great reasons to hire the right professional for the job.

So, for those who ask, “why would someone pay for sex,” I wanted to offer a few scenarios where hiring a sex worker might be the very best solution available.

 

How to react when your hookup says they’re on PrEP

How to react when your hookup says they’re on PrEP

Like many other people in the last couple of years, I started taking PrEP — the daily pill that lowers one’s risk of getting HIV. Since it’s a new drug, I’ve been keeping up with the news and controversy surrounding it, and there’s been a lot. Perhaps most troubling to me, though, is the rise of PrEP haters. So, I thought I’d give everyone a handy guide on how to react when your hookup tells you they’re on PrEP.

Do you brush your teeth before or after eating ass?

Do you brush your teeth before or after eating ass?

While enjoying my hot shower last night, I also was thinking about all the ways I would molest my boyfriend’s body when I left my steamy cocoon. I was feeling friskier than normal and decided to start my journey to wear him out with a surprise ass eating. After a bit more thinking about that, I found myself in a conundrum: Do I brush my teeth before I eat his ass or after?

1 easy, effective way to work through emotional pain

1 easy, effective way to work through emotional pain

For most of that time, I was just sort of dealing with my emotions in the traditional way — screaming, yelling, obsessing over Pokémon, etc. Then I was gifted a “Harry Potter” branded journal and things began to change. I didn’t know it at the time, but writing about my feelings was going to change my life. 

 

7 questions you must ask before saying 'I do'

7 questions you must ask before saying 'I do'

The man I married and I were once very in love. We were once very sexual. Hell, we were at one point even mutually financially stable. And if all of those pieces had stayed in place, we might have had a fighting chance. And I stress “might.” There is no winning formula for a lasting, happy relationship, but there are myriad formulae for doomed, unhappy ones. 

So, ask yourself these questions:

 

Are you planning your wedding or your marriage?

Are you planning your wedding or your marriage?

I remember designing and ordering the invitations. And then I remember never being happy in our relationship again. It wasn’t a magical switch; planning the wedding didn’t make us unhappy, but getting married didn’t make us happy, either. 

Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Series Door Restraint Set review - Awesome restraints, fantastic price

Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Series Door Restraint Set review - Awesome restraints, fantastic price

Bottom line: These are my new favorite restraints. With its low price, convenience, high build quality and versatility, Pipedream’s Fetish Fantasy Series Door Restraint Set is definitely sadist Sexpert-Approved. 


Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Extreme Inflatable XL Sphincter Stretcher review - if you don't mind latex, it's probably a great choice

Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Extreme Inflatable XL Sphincter Stretcher review - if you don't mind latex, it's probably a great choice

Bottom line: Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Extreme Inflatable XL Sphincter Stretcher is OK. It works well and is built well but just doesn’t excite the way I would like. The latex is cheap looking and was problematic for my latex-sensitive guy, and the vibrations could be stronger, but the affordable price tag makes it a great 

Pipedream Pump Worx Silicone Power Pump review - A worthy contender for your money

Pipedream Pump Worx Silicone Power Pump review - A worthy contender for your money

Bottom line: With its low cost, great performance and ease of use, Pipedream’s Pump Worx Silicone Power Pump already has become my new go-to for a quick and luxurious pumping session. It’s worth a look for beginners and pros alike. 

Pour Moi Intensity review - great but not for every vagina

Pour Moi Intensity review - great but not for every vagina

Perhaps I don't meet the criteria for this product, maybe you (yes, you reading this) suffer from a weak from a weak pelvic floor and this will work for you and be enjoyable. However, in the meantime, this product gets a resounding “...Meh...” from me.

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