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Pour Moi Intensity review - great but not for every vagina

Pour Moi Intensity review - great but not for every vagina

Perhaps I don't meet the criteria for this product, maybe you (yes, you reading this) suffer from a weak from a weak pelvic floor and this will work for you and be enjoyable. However, in the meantime, this product gets a resounding “...Meh...” from me.

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Everything you really need to know about defensiveness

Everything you really need to know about defensiveness

In the past week, I’ve written somewhere near 3,000 words on defensiveness. It was a thorough and thoughtful collection of blogs, but frankly that’s far too damn much to read for most people – me included. So, for myself and the rest of those who want to get digestible info quick, here’s everything you really need to know about defensiveness.

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How to own your shit, stop being so defensive and win people over

How to own your shit, stop being so defensive and win people over

Normally, we get a first-hand look at defensiveness when we’re fighting or when you’re given a critique. You can stop yourself in the moment, but it’ll be easier if you know it’s coming and how to deal with it.

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4 reasons asking questions avoids pointless arguments and makes you more likable

4 reasons asking questions avoids pointless arguments and makes you more likable

People love to make declarative statements, like these: “White people suck,” “Men are rapists,” “Beck deserved the Album of the Year Grammy.” While saying these things makes it easy for you to share your thoughts, they’re kind of useless if you want to have a discussion that goes somewhere other than into a shouting match.

Asking questions instead of making statements is one major way to avoid arguments, spend less time dealing with stupid problems and make yourself much more likable. Here’s a few reasons why. 

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9 thoughtless, defensive statements you've definitely said in every argument and what to say instead

9 thoughtless, defensive statements you've definitely said in every argument and what to say instead

Fact is, most of the time when we talk, we don’t choose every single word that comes out of our mouths — that would take way to much damn work, and I got shit to do today. So we tend use a lot of code words, common sayings and other thoughtless words to get our points across.

When it comes to an argument, critique or other difficult conversation, thoughtless usually equals asshole-ish, rude and defensive. Here are a few of those code words, sayings and other thoughtless statements you need to remove from your dictionary.

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The 8 types of defensiveness and how to identify which one you're fighting

The 8 types of defensiveness and how to identify which one you're fighting

At some point we all get a little defensive, but how we do it is different. Some people are in your face with it, others simply stay quiet and annoying – passive versus active. Either way, most of time, is a ninja with skill levels far over 9000. 

It’s a beast but kicking defensiveness’ ass isn’t so hard. Its key weakness is that it’s only really effective when you don’t know it’s there. Luckily, it’s also kind of stupid, illogical, repetitive and leaves footprints everywhere.

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Is defensiveness killing your relationship?

Is defensiveness killing your relationship?

Defensiveness is probably the biggest cause of “disagreements.” It’s an insidious little fucker who’ll drop into a conversation silently and try to disrupt any plans you had for a productive situation. If you let it stay around, it will accomplish its goal and probably make things worse for a long time after.

Luckily, you don’t have to concede defeat to that asshole. You can kick defensiveness’ ass. Although it’s pretty easy to learn how, be forewarned that it takes a lot of practice and understanding.

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Submission, obedience are choices a sub must make everyday

Submission, obedience are choices a sub must make everyday

My partner and submissive currently is standing in a corner, facing the wall. He’s been bad, if you couldn’t guess. I got home about four hours ago and his behavior led to a fight that lasted three hours. His crime: being a little shit. I didn’t know it at first, but the fight wasn’t between him and me. The conflict, in fact, was between our inner drives for control.

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6 incredible reasons to slow down your sex

6 incredible reasons to slow down your sex

When I started putting my penis in other people, I had one goal: destroy. I wanted to lay down the best dick game by banging like a jackhammer. While it worked, it came with a bunch of drawbacks.

Thankfully, though, I soon realized a slow stroke felt just as good and didn’t leave me in a sweaty mess.

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8 creative incognito options for your sub's leash and collar

8 creative incognito options for your sub's leash and collar

Unfortunately, walking slaves, subs and human pups around in their proper uniform isn’t really going to sit well with people in most social situations. These tips will help you maintain your control and display your ownership incognito. You might be surprised by how much kinky sex shit you can get away with in public if you get creative.

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Single female seeks modelesque, rich, hilarious, baggage-free, impossibly perfect man

Single female seeks modelesque, rich, hilarious, baggage-free, impossibly perfect man

I'm supposed to be commanding and dominant, but if I don't do it perfectly, I'll be the sort of douchebag that women don't want to date. I also must be masculine in behaviour, but not in any manner that might be construed as threatening. I also can’t be too gentlemanly, because I’ll come across as less masculine.

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6 undeniable reasons trashing, shaming your ex makes you the asshole. Kayne West could learn from #4.

After a breakup, people do lots of things to make themselves feel better. Usually, that involves eating too much, fucking someone else or minimizing how strongly they felt for the person. Sadly, one of people’s favorite ways of making themselves feel better is by slut shaming their ex, and it’s time for that shit to stop.

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