New and upcoming guest apprearances by LTASEX creator Jerome Stuart Nichols!

New and upcoming guest apprearances by LTASEX creator Jerome Stuart Nichols!

This summer has been all about reaching out to other awesome people in the sex world. I've had a ton of guests on Behind Closed Doors but I was also recently a guest on a couple of shows and I have a few appearances scheduled. Since this is my first time really branching out of LTASEX, I don't have a standard way of letting you folk know where I'm at so, for right now, I'll be keeping you updated here.

5 easy essential tips for sexier sexting

5 easy essential tips for sexier sexting

I’ll admit it, I really don’t like sexting. I mean, it can definitely be fun but most of the people who end up trying to sext me go about it all wrong. So, to save others afflicted by random questions about our attire at 3am, I thought I’d throw out a few basic guidelines for some sexting that’s actually kind of sexy and fun.

6 reasons to hire a sex worker

6 reasons to hire a sex worker

While it’s unlikely the average person would die without the help of a sex worker, there’s still plenty of great reasons to hire the right professional for the job.

So, for those who ask, “why would someone pay for sex,” I wanted to offer a few scenarios where hiring a sex worker might be the very best solution available.

 

How to react when your hookup says they’re on PrEP

How to react when your hookup says they’re on PrEP

Like many other people in the last couple of years, I started taking PrEP — the daily pill that lowers one’s risk of getting HIV. Since it’s a new drug, I’ve been keeping up with the news and controversy surrounding it, and there’s been a lot. Perhaps most troubling to me, though, is the rise of PrEP haters. So, I thought I’d give everyone a handy guide on how to react when your hookup tells you they’re on PrEP.

Do you brush your teeth before or after eating ass?

Do you brush your teeth before or after eating ass?

While enjoying my hot shower last night, I also was thinking about all the ways I would molest my boyfriend’s body when I left my steamy cocoon. I was feeling friskier than normal and decided to start my journey to wear him out with a surprise ass eating. After a bit more thinking about that, I found myself in a conundrum: Do I brush my teeth before I eat his ass or after?

1 easy, effective way to work through emotional pain

1 easy, effective way to work through emotional pain

For most of that time, I was just sort of dealing with my emotions in the traditional way — screaming, yelling, obsessing over Pokémon, etc. Then I was gifted a “Harry Potter” branded journal and things began to change. I didn’t know it at the time, but writing about my feelings was going to change my life. 

 

7 questions you must ask before saying 'I do'

7 questions you must ask before saying 'I do'

The man I married and I were once very in love. We were once very sexual. Hell, we were at one point even mutually financially stable. And if all of those pieces had stayed in place, we might have had a fighting chance. And I stress “might.” There is no winning formula for a lasting, happy relationship, but there are myriad formulae for doomed, unhappy ones. 

So, ask yourself these questions:

 

Are you planning your wedding or your marriage?

Are you planning your wedding or your marriage?

I remember designing and ordering the invitations. And then I remember never being happy in our relationship again. It wasn’t a magical switch; planning the wedding didn’t make us unhappy, but getting married didn’t make us happy, either. 

Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Series Door Restraint Set review - Awesome restraints, fantastic price

Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Series Door Restraint Set review - Awesome restraints, fantastic price

Bottom line: These are my new favorite restraints. With its low price, convenience, high build quality and versatility, Pipedream’s Fetish Fantasy Series Door Restraint Set is definitely sadist Sexpert-Approved. 


Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Extreme Inflatable XL Sphincter Stretcher review - if you don't mind latex, it's probably a great choice

Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Extreme Inflatable XL Sphincter Stretcher review - if you don't mind latex, it's probably a great choice

Bottom line: Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Extreme Inflatable XL Sphincter Stretcher is OK. It works well and is built well but just doesn’t excite the way I would like. The latex is cheap looking and was problematic for my latex-sensitive guy, and the vibrations could be stronger, but the affordable price tag makes it a great 

Pipedream Pump Worx Silicone Power Pump review - A worthy contender for your money

Pipedream Pump Worx Silicone Power Pump review - A worthy contender for your money

Bottom line: With its low cost, great performance and ease of use, Pipedream’s Pump Worx Silicone Power Pump already has become my new go-to for a quick and luxurious pumping session. It’s worth a look for beginners and pros alike. 

Pour Moi Intensity review - great but not for every vagina

Pour Moi Intensity review - great but not for every vagina

Perhaps I don't meet the criteria for this product, maybe you (yes, you reading this) suffer from a weak from a weak pelvic floor and this will work for you and be enjoyable. However, in the meantime, this product gets a resounding “...Meh...” from me.

Everything you really need to know about defensiveness

Everything you really need to know about defensiveness

In the past week, I’ve written somewhere near 3,000 words on defensiveness. It was a thorough and thoughtful collection of blogs, but frankly that’s far too damn much to read for most people – me included. So, for myself and the rest of those who want to get digestible info quick, here’s everything you really need to know about defensiveness.

How to own your shit, stop being so defensive and win people over

How to own your shit, stop being so defensive and win people over

Normally, we get a first-hand look at defensiveness when we’re fighting or when you’re given a critique. You can stop yourself in the moment, but it’ll be easier if you know it’s coming and how to deal with it.

4 reasons asking questions avoids pointless arguments and makes you more likable

4 reasons asking questions avoids pointless arguments and makes you more likable

People love to make declarative statements, like these: “White people suck,” “Men are rapists,” “Beck deserved the Album of the Year Grammy.” While saying these things makes it easy for you to share your thoughts, they’re kind of useless if you want to have a discussion that goes somewhere other than into a shouting match.

Asking questions instead of making statements is one major way to avoid arguments, spend less time dealing with stupid problems and make yourself much more likable. Here’s a few reasons why. 

9 thoughtless, defensive statements you've definitely said in every argument and what to say instead

9 thoughtless, defensive statements you've definitely said in every argument and what to say instead

Fact is, most of the time when we talk, we don’t choose every single word that comes out of our mouths — that would take way to much damn work, and I got shit to do today. So we tend use a lot of code words, common sayings and other thoughtless words to get our points across.

When it comes to an argument, critique or other difficult conversation, thoughtless usually equals asshole-ish, rude and defensive. Here are a few of those code words, sayings and other thoughtless statements you need to remove from your dictionary.

The 8 types of defensiveness and how to identify which one you're fighting

The 8 types of defensiveness and how to identify which one you're fighting

At some point we all get a little defensive, but how we do it is different. Some people are in your face with it, others simply stay quiet and annoying – passive versus active. Either way, most of time, is a ninja with skill levels far over 9000. 

It’s a beast but kicking defensiveness’ ass isn’t so hard. Its key weakness is that it’s only really effective when you don’t know it’s there. Luckily, it’s also kind of stupid, illogical, repetitive and leaves footprints everywhere.

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