What to do when someone throws up in your lap

What to do when someone throws up in your lap

Only once have I thrown up while giving a blow job, yet I think last night makes four times in a year my partner has managed to throw up all over my erect cock and lap. Although I’ve probably now been thrown up on during sex more than your average person, it never gets easier.

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7 questions you must ask before saying 'I do'

7 questions you must ask before saying 'I do'

The man I married and I were once very in love. We were once very sexual. Hell, we were at one point even mutually financially stable. And if all of those pieces had stayed in place, we might have had a fighting chance. And I stress “might.” There is no winning formula for a lasting, happy relationship, but there are myriad formulae for doomed, unhappy ones. 

So, ask yourself these questions:

 

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If your child walks in on you having sex, you probably have a rude ass kid

If your child walks in on you having sex, you probably have a rude ass kid

If your child walks into your bedroom without knocking and finds you in a compromising position, you have a problem — it’s just not what you probably think it is.

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How not to be an asshole when cumming in someone's mouth

How not to be an asshole when cumming in someone's mouth

Who the fuck told people they could just bust a nut in someone’s mouth without warning? It’s just so rude.

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8 tips guranteed to reenergize your boring blow jobs

8 tips guranteed to reenergize your boring blow jobs

As a person who’s loved sucking cock for a good long time now, I’ll admit that it’s very easy to get into a rut. You’ve got your old faithful tricks and blissful things you think of in the moment, but somehow it always seems to come back to bobbing on their shaft for dear life.

While that’s not 100 percent terrible – their cock is in our mouth, after all – there’s probably more we could be doing. These eight blow job tips are just a bit of that “more,” but for the person you’re sucking off, it will feel like a lot more.

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7 incredible nuggets of poly wisdom from Cunning Minx (video)

7 incredible nuggets of poly wisdom from Cunning Minx (video)

I sat down with poly expert and host of the Poly Weekly podcast, Cunning Minx. We had a great time and she gave plenty of great advice for making the best of your poly relationship.

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Will he think I'm a hoe if I have sex on the first date?

“Is it ok to have sex on the first date? I mean, imma do what I want but like do guys still think that gurls are slutty for having sex on the first night?”

Yes and yes.

Look, if you’ve read even one of my columns, you know I’m going to tell you that it’s perfectly fine to have as much sex as you feel you need or want. If you’ve watched TV or a movie in the last month, you’ll know that the old double standard is still alive.

Now, I should also mention that it’s not very safe to literally have sex with every guy you see. But, if you’re like most college folk and sleeping with maybe 3 people in a month then enjoy yourself. Even if your number of partners reached ten in a month, I would still say enjoy yourself.

Now, if that number reaches like twenty then you are definitely increasing your risk to a level I wouldn’t recommend. But, if you’re cool with the risks involved and taking on no more risk than you’re comfortable with or can responsibly handle, then I say enjoy yourself.

I would recommend that you see a doctor regularly if you’re in the upper tier, as far as the number of sexual partners. Then again, I would recommend that to anyone who is sexually active. But, my recommendation to you is much stronger.  I’ve been hearing chatter that there may be an isolated syphilis outbreak on campus, just be careful.

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What to do if you find blood in your semen

“My semen has blood in it sometimes. Should I be worried?”

Yes.

Go to the doctor immediately. It’s not an emergency but blood in semen is not caused by anything that you would want to leave untreated.

In my experience, this is a very common symptom of testicular cancer, which is bad but survivable. You could also have an open sore in your urethra, which is bad but also survivable. Since I’m not an MD, it would be horribly irresponsible of me to say anything more than I already have, go see a doctor.

If you haven’t recently, now would be a good time to get up close and personal with your body. Take a look at your penis, scrotum, perineum (the skin between your scrotum and anus), inner thigh, butt, anus (if you can), and the inside of your mouth. If you feel lumps, swelling, pain, redness, sores, or anything else that looks abnormal then that’s another reason to get yourself to the doctor. Even if you don’t feel/see anything odd, go see a doctor.

If you don’t have insurance, visit Corner Health Center or Planned Parenthood. Even they can’t see you, they point you in the right direction.

Moral of the story, see a doctor. Now.

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Is it cool to wait to have sex or am I basically fucked?

“Is it cool to wait? Should I feel bad because I don’t want to have sex yet?”

To answer your question, no, there is reason to you should feel bad about not wanting to have sex yet.

I know that in our sexual social climate, sometimes it can seem like being a virgin or being abstinent is somehow a burden.  But, the reality is that you have every right to choose every aspect of your sexuality. It’s your body, do with it what you want.

That being said, I would encourage you examine the reasons behind your desire to not have sex. Are you scared because you’re uninformed? Are you following the guidelines of your religion? Are you simply practicing the safest form of sex possible? Have you simply not met the guy, gal, or inbetweener that is worthy of sharing your genitals with?

Whatever the case, be sure that you’re doing it for a positive and healthy reason. Often we choose to close off ourselves off because we’re fearful and we like hide that fear behind religion or ideas of propriety. But, in reality we’re just running away.

I would like you to make sure that you are still exploring your sexuality, even though you’re not having sex. If you wait too long to even acknowledge the sexual being within you, you could miss out on a lot positive formative experiences.

Masturbation is healthy, beneficial, and fun. You could also try watching porn, or reading erotica and sexual fantasy to help keep your sexuality buzzing along happily. This will put you in a better position to explore the physical side of your sexuality if you ever get to that point.

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Have you heard that oral sex can cause cancer?

A study published in early 2011 found an unexpected and unexplained rise in oral cancers that are associated with HPV. When researchers sought to find an answer for their results they found a separate survey, which found a rise in oral sex. Since it is very possible to spread HPV through oral sex many experts concurred with the findings and they were subsequently released to the public.

When media outlets caught wind of these findings, they ran with the story that our wanton oral sex was causing the higher incidents of HPV related oral cancers. Unfortunately, that’s only part of the story.  

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