All in Advice

A friend of mine is selling Pure Romance stuff. She was telling me about this arousal cream they sell. I think it sounds cool but it cost like $15 a bottle, is it worth it. Are there any arousal creams you can recommend? Do they even work?

Short answer: Nope. None. Not at all.

Long answer: There are no products on the market that have been FDA approved to aid in arousal response. Even drugs like Cialis and Viagra simply mimic the physical symptoms of arousal by dilating a man's blood vessels allowing for more blood flow.

Dear Reader,

Your vagina is fine.

If you have concerns about the relaxed width of your vagina, then you can try kegel exercises. They are a common way to help you gain control of the muscles that surround your vagina.

If you have a had a number of partners that you consider to be too many and feel guilt about it, you needn’t worry. The vagina was made to be pounded by penis for about 40 years between puberty and menopause; it’s quite strong and resilient. Remember this is the organ that can stretch to push out a 12lb. child and snap right back.

In past relationships, the guy has always been the one to ask me out. I've been single for like 3 years and I worry that no one is going to ask me out. I don't want to ask a guy out because he may get scared. What should I do?

Hi, welcome to 2011.

Since you seem to have been in hibernation for the past century, you probably missed the women's sufferage movement. That means you don't know we've had a female secretary of state, attorney general, and we almost got a female vice president. In the 21st centrury women have the ability to do almost whatever they hell they want to. That includes initiating sex and relationships.