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Holistic sex and relationship counselor Elaine Miles recently declared that she was never going to have a monogamous relationship again. Of course, I had to know why.
In this episode of Let’s Talk About Sex we sit down with Elaine to talk about why she’s done with monogamy, the benefits of opening your relationship and why humans are all a bunch of sluts
Ever since I was a kid, I have loved pop divas. The day after Britney Spears debuted “I’m a Slave 4 U” on the 2001 MTV VMAs, I was in my basement for like 10 hours with my best friend learning all the choreography. Being free to enjoy that facet of my personality is one of the most fun parts about being a gay guy. Having to deal with fellow gays who feel the need to make fun of my passion is one of the least.
Ever since checking out Courtney Troubles’ Hard Femme: Lesbian Curves 2, I’ve had a crush on Betty Blac. Seeing a plus size Black queer woman in porn was a fangirl moment for me. So, of course, when I set out to review an episode of porn series Crash Pad Series, I went straight to Betty’s video with another porn crush Kitty Stryker. I was not disappointed. Kitty describes this episode as the beginning of her porno romance with Betty.
I really fucking love hip hop and I also really fucking love sex positivity. If you think the two don’t mix, you’re wrong; from Salt N Pepa’s “Let’s Talk About Sex,” to Akinyele’s “Put it in your Mouth,” hip hop is always bringing sex positivity and liberation to the masses. These days, it’s artists like Kanye West and Drake carrying the torch and promoting ethical non-monogamy, sexual agency and sex positivity. Here are some of the most outspoken.
When it comes to relationships, most of the time, people simply fall into the Sarlacc pit of monogamy by default. As a proud whore, the happily (monogamous) ever after ideal has never been my romantic goal. In my eyes, the best part of sex – and life, in general – is getting to experience all the variety it has to offer and it’d be stupid for me choose to love in any other way.
I recently started dating a poly and kinky woman (T). She is married to her Dominant. They also have a live-in BDSM slave who is owned and collared like myself, but my relationship with T isn’t kinky. In fact, we’re careful to keep our relationship deliberately vanilla. Well, as vanilla as strap-ons and hair pulling can be. Why? Because of boundaries, my darling readers.
Although I know where it comes from, I’ve never quite understood the worldwide trend of traditionally monogamous relationships. In my personal view, it’s restrictive and doesn’t really suit the nature of human sexuality. If you’re looking for a cure to the common monogamous commitment but don’t want to reinvent the wheel, why not try casual dating instead.
he first year of my oral sex “studies” were awkward at best. What is this penis and why is this person shoving it in my face? Where do my hands go? Am I morally obligated to swallow if there’s semen in my mouth? I was flabbergasted, thrown into this when I clearly wasn’t ready. Why would anyone would want my mouth on their genitals?
Online dating has changed the way dating works. While an in-person meet will always be more effective, online dating opens you up to a world of possibilities. Not only to you get to meet people you would have never met before but you’re also able to find the exact type of relationship you’re looking for, even if you’re looking for a sexy cheating wife for a quick tryst.
Recently, I came across word "dogging" and had no idea what it was so I figured I’d give you all a quick overview. Dogging is a British word for sex outdoors but it’s a little more complicated and sexier than that. It’s in the same vein as exhibition and voyeurism, but it’s more like an organized spectator sport.
