So, me and my girlfriend of 9 months had a discussion about our sexual history, what we’ve done, etc. One of things we talked about was the number of people we’ve had sex with. Mine was rather low, not for any particular reason. But, hers was over fifty. I didn’t say anything in the moment, but I’m really freaked out.

I keep getting hit on by gay dudes, and it really bothers me. I mean, I’m straight, why do they keep hitting on me? Any idea how I can stop having gay guys hit on me?

 I recently got out of 2 year relationship. I wasn’t planning on dating anyone, but there’s this guy I can’t keep my eyes of. He works with me in the Student Center and I think he’s super cute and funny. I’d been really good and avoided dwelling on my feeling and attraction towards him, but the other day I heard him talking about me to another one of our co-workers. He was asking whether or not it was too soon to ask me out, because of my break up. It’s been a week since then and he hasn’t so I assume he decided it was too soon.