A friend of mine is selling Pure Romance stuff. She was telling me about this arousal cream they sell. I think it sounds cool but it cost like $15 a bottle, is it worth it. Are there any arousal creams you can recommend? Do they even work?

Short answer: Nope. None. Not at all.

Long answer: There are no products on the market that have been FDA approved to aid in arousal response. Even drugs like Cialis and Viagra simply mimic the physical symptoms of arousal by dilating a man's blood vessels allowing for more blood flow.

Dear Reader,

Your vagina is fine.

If you have concerns about the relaxed width of your vagina, then you can try kegel exercises. They are a common way to help you gain control of the muscles that surround your vagina.

If you have a had a number of partners that you consider to be too many and feel guilt about it, you needn’t worry. The vagina was made to be pounded by penis for about 40 years between puberty and menopause; it’s quite strong and resilient. Remember this is the organ that can stretch to push out a 12lb. child and snap right back.