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For the last Humpday Hotties of Body Positivity Month, it’s your turn in the spotlight. A couple weeks back, I put out the call for your sexiest body positive photos. While only a few of you stepped up, there’s still plenty of sexy to enjoy.
To love everything that you are, you have to learn to accept everything that you are. That means you have to accept that you’re a sexual being who may or may not be into some really kinky shit.
Often men don't see themselves as being sexy. That's terribly sad because there are so many sexy men in this world. For one of the last Humpday Hotties during Body Positivity Month, I wanted to take some time to appreciate men in all their various shapes and sizes.
June 2013 is Body Positivity Month on LTASEX. It’s where we take a moment and focus on the skin that we’re in and celebrate its every fold, wrinkle and mole. For the last Humpday Hotties post of June, I want to give all of you sexy people a chance to shine by making it all about you!
As Body Positivity Month rolls on, I want to talk about how to become more positive about your body. It’s taken me a while to get to a place of peace with my body and I’m going to share the four steps I took to learn to love my body. That being said, remember that this is a journey and not a destination. You’re not going to go through the steps and feel instantly better but, if you keep practicing, it’ll work out.
Over the last 18 months, I’ve lost 130+ lbs. Although I’ll sometimes nod when people congratulate me for thinking of my health, I really lost it because I wanted cuter and cheaper clothes. Well, at least that was why I thought I decided to lose weight. That is until I recently got real with myself and admitted that what I really wanted was to feel sexy again.
We often forget about the needs of those at the top of the food chain. But if we are to make progress for women, it's necessary to make progress with men. A rising tide does raise all ships.
I’m annoyed.
I have been searching for months, years really, trying to find a website that has pictures of folks our age in the buff. It would seem like simple task but alas I find myself empty handed. Oh sure I’ve found many images of people 18-30 in various states of undress, but they were either shot in 1940 or they were straight up porn, even then, I could only find images of white people.
Could it be that in the world of limitless information at our fingertips that we have no record of body development to which we can compare our ever-changing bodies? A metric that is current, that also happens to be all-inclusive. Sadly, It seems so.
One of the biggest goals for most people our age is to feel “normal.” We find our cliques, and socialize each other in an attempt to make ourselves more “normal.” The problem is that normal is relative and without a directory of normalcies we create our own. The ones we create are often vastly different from reality and are often informed by media. Media, as we know, is morbidly disproportionate in terms if representing normal people, both physically and mentally. Media is highly prejudiced for race, age, economic level, religion, social norms, sexual orientation, gender and for everything else to which one can be prejudiced.
The result of this is that we now have three generations of people who have no idea what it is that their body is supposed to be. These people have no idea of how they compare to one another, just how they compare to Victoria’s Secret models and Porn Stars. They have no sense of reality and no assurance that who they are is acceptable.
