Oral sex and the fat girl
Believe it or not, there are many articles on sex and fat folks, which mostly center on being comfortable and positions for penetration. I am here today to talk about cunnilingus as a fat person. I’m sure some of you out there are master pussy eaters and don’t need my advice, but sometimes sex can be a bit different for people of size.
While folks with vaginas have the same basic parts down below, they vary in shape and size. Your technique with your thin partner may not suit the needs of your fat partner. And as a fat person, there may be some minor adjustments we need to make when receiving oral pleasure.
Tummies and thighs
If you’re fat like me, you may have a beautiful tummy that greets your partner when they are making their way downtown. Do not feel embarrassed that it hides your genitals. There are two ways one can work with the tummy. One, spreading your legs further apart will lift your stomach up, or two, simply lift it yourself or have your partner lift it as they go down on you. It is a pretty simple “problem” that can be worked out.
I also have big thunder thighs and those, too, can get in the way. As much as I like to smother my partner a little bit, I do what I can to make things comfortable for the both of us. Just like the tummy, you can spread your thighs further apart, or you or your partner can move some of the thigh meat out the way. Equally as important (if it is physically possibly), bring your legs toward your body (still parted) to expose your privates more easily.
Being on top isn’t just for penetration anymore! That’s right, folks, I’m talking about riding your partner’s face. Many people are frightened by this position, mostly due to fear of smothering your partner. If you’re on your knees, you have enough control to give your partner air. If you and your partner are more adventurous, you can sit full weight on their face. Either way, have a communication system in place so your partner can tell you if they would like an air break.
Hygiene and appearance
I have to admit, when I first started to have sex, I was really worried about the smell of my vagina. I’m a big girl; I sweat down there. My thighs rub together and it creates moisture. However, your pussy doesn’t have some unique fat person smell. If you’ve been doing some physical activity and you think you need to refresh, go right ahead. I sometimes use wet wipes if I’m a little sweaty down there. You can also use a washcloth with some soap. It’s your preference. I’ve even known girls who change their underwear if it’s particularly hot. Everyone sweats! Practice good hygiene and you’ll be fine.
Another insecurity I have is the discoloration on the inside of my thighs. They rub together (chub rub) and are darker than the rest of my skin, and I get boils. It’s something I’ve had to get over in order to enjoy sex. It may be hard, but remember so many people have the same issue and no one’s skin is absolutely perfect. Plus, if your partner is too busy paying attention to the hue of the inside of your thighs, they have some messed-up priorities.
Oral sex should be fun for everyone. Our needs as a fat people may be a little different than our thin counterparts, but that doesn’t mean the fun should stop for us! On the contrary, we just have more to work with, and I find that even more exciting. Sex is never going to be perfect. There will be some points where things move out of place and parts need to be adjusted – that’s what makes sex so thrilling. Just laugh it off and continue to get your orgasm on!