Men have some rather ridiculous and sometimes straight-up puzzling ideas about their bodies and sexual pleasure. Many guys, whether through a lack of imagination or fear, never venture past their dick and balls for sexual pleasure.
It’s time for that to change — especially when it comes to nipple play.
I’ve been playing with my nipples since I was in middle school. I saw it in porn and wondered how it felt: amazing. Dudes don’t really do that in most mainstream porn, though. You also don’t hear many men talking about their nipples, ever — sexually or otherwise.
Just because our nipples are basically pointless doesn’t mean we have to ignore them. They are a fountain of pleasures, and women aren’t the only ones who can drink.
You may not know this, but male breast and female breast are exactly the same. Females (cis) tend to develop more fat and their milk ducts more commonly mature, but otherwise they’re the same.
Yes, that means that men can breastfeed, too. Although it takes more work to make it happen. It also means that you’re capable of feeling all that pleasure women feel when their nipples are stimulated.
I’ve been asked, “Why do you even want to play with your nipples?” To which I respond, “Why the fuck not?”
Nipples are on our bodies because they’re there. Men have no need for them, but they’re there and they usually feel really good when touched.
If you understand masturbating your penis, nipple play shouldn’t be that hard to understand.
Usually when a guy asks me this, though, he’s really trying to be a smart ass and ask why he would play with his nipples when his dick works fine. That’s a different question and, yet, one with an equally sarcastic response.
Basically: Why do we do anything that feels good? Simply because it feels good, and for no other reason.
Your body is made for sex. Your body is made to be touched and touch feels good.
There’s no shame in wanting to be touched in a way you like. There’s also no shame in finding out if you like being touched in way that guys aren’t expected to like.
On the scale of exploration, nipples are kind of pedestrian, really. We accidentally graze our nipples all the time. It’s not like most people don’t have an idea about what it will feel like if they put their hand there.
Dudes, particularly, care a ton about fitting in. For dudes to fit in they’ve only got so much wiggle room. For far too many dudes, they don’t even give themselves enough wiggle room to explore their own bodies.
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I always find it funny that my guy friends will brag about sucking a woman’s breasts but then get squeamish at the thought of doing it to themselves. It’s like they tried to divide by zero in their calculations and got a blue screen of boring sex.
No matter what anyone — including your friends — says, nipples are for everyone. If you’ve got them, give them a spin. You’ll be surprised how much better it can make most any sexual play.