Fifi penile masturbator review - Inexpensive, versatile, definitely worth a look #SexpertApproved

Fifi penile masturbator review - Inexpensive, versatile, definitely worth a look #SexpertApproved

Bottom Line: With its discreet design, simplicity, travel ability and stellar price, Fifi is a welcomed addition to the male masturbation toy market and my bedroom. Although the single-use sleeves will get expensive over time, it’s a small investment for a great travel companion or rare treat. If you want to use it sparingly, with multiple partners, with a vibrator or only when you travel, Fifi also is a fantastic option.

What I learned from my boyfriend's trip in the psych ward

What I learned from my boyfriend's trip in the psych ward

Picking my boyfriend up from the 1 East Psychiatric Wing of St. Joseph Mercy Hospital was more difficult than putting him in. Sure, he seemed to be in good spirits. Sure, the 49 cuts he put in his arm had healed, but during his weeklong stay, he was someone else’s problem. Now he was back in my life and I, finally, had to start dealing with my feelings.

How to write your own user manual

It’s pretty much a universal truth that life is hard. In fact, just living life in a body is hard. The fact that this shit didn’t come with a user manual is a cosmic joke. Luckily, you don’t have to be the butt of that joke anymore.

As a person who has depression, anxiety, panic attacks and impulse control problems, I’ve been looking for a user manual for years. Recently, I stopped looking and decided to write the damn thing myself. It turned out to be an unparalleled resource. So, I wanted to share it with you.

 

Personal User Manual Instructions:

The purpose of this form is to lay out instructions for how to live your best life. Don’t be afraid to think on a question and come back to it. Skip any section that doesn’t apply to you.

For this to work properly, you must be honest and vulnerable. This is your instruction manual for yourself; you don’t have to share it with anyone. Yet I would suggest that someone in your life should have this, too, so you’re not the only one who knows.

If you have a partner or best friend, filling this out together can be a very intimate experience. This manual may be useful to your doctors, therapists or other professionals.

The Personal User Manual is a living document. Feel free to add/remove or change any part of your answers at will. If you’re working with an old playbook it won’t be as effective, but it’s important to know where you’ve been. Revisiting how you used to live or what used to work can be very helpful.

If you’re ever confused about a question, just answer it in whatever way you think is correct. If you have any suggestions about ways to make this better let me know: Jerome@ltasex.info

 

Critical Info

Name:

DOB:

Medications:

Diagnosed conditions:

Allergies:

ICE contact(s):

Primary care physician:

Therapist:

On a scale of 0 (terminal) to 10 (perfect) my health is:

Diagnosed conditions:

Potential undiagnosed conditions/symptoms:

Medication(s):

Allergies:

My health makes it difficult to:

Physical limitations:

When I'm sick, I need:

Notes:

 

Confidence

On a scale of 0 (none) to 10 (complete), my overall confidence is:

On a scale of 0 (none) to 10 (complete), my confidence in my physical attractiveness:

On a scale of 0 (none) to 10 (complete), my confidence in my capabilities:

On a scale of 0 (none) to 10 (complete), my confidence in my decision making:

On a scale of 0 (none) to 10 (complete), my confidence in my ability to sexually please my partners:

On a scale of 0 (none) to 10 (complete), my confidence that I am deserving of love:

 

Personality

I would describe myself as:

I’m really good at:

I’m really bad at:

Accomplishments:

Goals:

I need help with:

On a scale of 0 (completely submissive/follower) to 10 (completely dominant/leader) I am:

On a scale of 0 (none) to 10 (all), I prefer to make ___ my own life decisions:

On a scale of 0 (none) to 10 (all), I need ___ guidance:

When I need help, I will:

I work through my emotions by:

Things you should watch out for with me:

Notes:

 

Moods/Emotions

My mood is generally:

Things that make me happy:

Things that make me sad:

When I’m sad, you can:

When I’m mad/angry/annoyed, it feels/looks like:

When I’m mad/angry/annoyed, I need:

What I need to be content is:

What relaxes me is:

When I’m relaxed/content, it feels/looks like:

What stresses me out is:

When I’m stressed, it feels/looks like:

What gets me pumped up is:

When I’m pumped up, it feels/looks like:

Things that make me anxious:

Things that scare me:

Things that will hurt my feelings:

Things that annoy me:

 

Fun/Preferences

For fun I like to:

My favorite food(s) is/are:

My favorite beverage(s) is/are:

My favorite alcoholic beverage(s) is/are:

My favorite vices:

I should avoid these vices:

I should avoid these vices when I'm not in good place:

My favorite thing(s) to listen to:

My favorite things to watch:  

I need about ___ hours of sleep. When I don’t:

I need to eat about ____ times a day. When I don’t:

 

Sexuality

I need to have sex about ____ per _____. When I don't:

The type of people I have sex with are:

The type of sex I like to have is:

How to arouse me:

How to turn me off:

My favorite fantasies:

Something I'd like to do more of is:

My kinks and fetishes are:

On a scale of 0 (not at all) to 10 (completely), I'd rate my sexual satisfaction as:

I need help with:

What I need from a partner/relationship:

 

Family

Traumatic experiences:

Happiest moments:

I prefer my chosen or biological family:

These people are not good for me and I need to avoid them:

These people will always help me, if I need it:

These people love and support me:

How to make me feel loved and cared for:

On a scale of 0 (not at all) to 10 (completely) I have resolved my “issues”:

The “issues” I’m still working on:

The easiest shortcut to better sex

The easiest shortcut to better sex

My guy and I have some really satisfying sex — the best sex I’ve had in my life, really. It wasn’t always like that, though. In fact, we’ve had to work at making sure our sex is great for both of us.

Of all the things we’ve tried, asking a single question has made the most difference:

April Flores' new site fulfills all your Fat Girl Fantasies - Review

April Flores' new site fulfills all your Fat Girl Fantasies - Review

Bottom line: Fat Girl Fantasies is a great site that delivers fat girl smut without fetishizing them. The $30/mo. (or $120 for 6 mo.) cost is a lot to ask if you're already on a budget. However, if you want to support quality porn featuring a diverse selection gorgeous chubby women loving their sex, get those credit cards ready – this is exactly what you’re looking for. 

What to do when someone throws up in your lap

What to do when someone throws up in your lap

Only once have I thrown up while giving a blow job, yet I think last night makes four times in a year my partner has managed to throw up all over my erect cock and lap. Although I’ve probably now been thrown up on during sex more than your average person, it never gets easier.

Everything you've ever wanted to know about rimming, eating ass

Everything you've ever wanted to know about rimming, eating ass

Rimming, tossing salad, cake buffet, eating ass: Whatever you call analingus is at the same time mysterious for some and wholly pedestrian for others. Since I’m the patron saint of conservative kinksters and slutty prudes alike, I thought I’d take some time to give you a quick overview of everything analingus.

59 most pleasurable body parts

59 most pleasurable body parts

When it comes pleasuring the body, most people stop at the genitals. While it can be incredibly fun to stimulate the genitals, there are so many more places on your body that can provide you pleasure. Some of them have even been said to create more pleasurable sensations than what’s between your legs.

5 ways you can support LTASEX - Now is the time!

5 ways you can support LTASEX - Now is the time!

When my options are food and housing or a sense of self-accomplishment and the joy of helping, there’s no contest. Sadly, that’s a decision I’m going to have to start making very soon but, with your support, I might not have to.

106 ways to please your body, mind and soul

106 ways to please your body, mind and soul

The body’s ability to feel pleasure is so expansive I don’t think we’ll ever achieve full knowledge of its capabilities. Yet, even though we’ve discovered a lot of great things it can do and experience, few people explore for themselves. To help give you a few good ideas, I wanted to jump start your knowledge with an ever-expanding list of ways to please your body.

10 signs you have sexual anxiety

10 signs you have sexual anxiety

For most of my partnered sex, I’ve been plagued by a problem: a sudden rush of panic when other people initiate. For a long time, I hadn’t known what it was. Over time, though, it’s become clear that I’m suffering from pre-sex anxiety.

From my years of helping people have better sex, I know that many others suffer from the same problem. So, I wanted to offer up a few of the symptoms I’ve noticed to help you figure out if you’re dealing with the same problem.

How do you handle poly drama?

How do you handle poly drama?

In the time I’ve been living this modern poly-relationship life, I’ve been lucky to avoid outside drama. Then my boyfriend got a new boyfriend and, well, things have started to get bumpy. Luckily, I know exactly what to do: talk about it with patience, empathy and, if all else fails, kick his ass to the curb.

7 reasons slutty women are better in bed

7 reasons slutty women are better in bed

Sexually empowered women often get a bad reputation. We’re labeled as easy, trashy, dirty, loose, full of STDs -- not someone you want to sleep with. Yet, we have no trouble finding partners who are more than happy to share a bed with us and keep coming back for more. The stereotypes you’ve heard are more than outdated and inaccurate -- they entirely negate the sexy benefits of freedom, confidence, and experience in the bedroom! Lose your fear of the sexually empowered woman: sleeping with a “slut” might just be your favorite sexual memory yet! Here are 7 reasons why.

New and upcoming guest apprearances by LTASEX creator Jerome Stuart Nichols!

New and upcoming guest apprearances by LTASEX creator Jerome Stuart Nichols!

This summer has been all about reaching out to other awesome people in the sex world. I've had a ton of guests on Behind Closed Doors but I was also recently a guest on a couple of shows and I have a few appearances scheduled. Since this is my first time really branching out of LTASEX, I don't have a standard way of letting you folk know where I'm at so, for right now, I'll be keeping you updated here.

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