8 tips guranteed to reenergize your boring blow jobs

As a person who’s loved sucking cock for a good long time now, I’ll admit that it’s very easy to get into a rut. You’ve got your old faithful tricks and blissful things you think of in the moment, but somehow it always seems to come back to bobbing on their shaft for dear life.

While that’s not 100 percent terrible – their cock is in our mouth, after all – there’s probably more we could be doing. These eight blow job tips are just a bit of that “more,” but for the person you’re sucking off, it will feel like a lot more.

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#1 Foreplay

When it comes to folks with penises, there often is a distinct lack of foreplay offered to them. In truth, though, foreplay is important for everyone.

Before you start sucking, give a little strip show or lap dance. Possibly touch and caress them gently in the places they like. Do what you know gets their blood pumping and it’ll only add to their arousal and overall pleasure. 

#2 Tease, tease, tease

If an author knows how to build suspense, they can capture your attention and arouse your mind. If a good cock sucker knows how to build suspense, they can capture their partner’s attention, arouse their mind and use it against them.

Before you get started, rub their cock through their clothes. When you’re getting started, only use the tip of your tongue. Perhaps leave the shaft for last but give it a little attention between paying attention to the stuff in tip #3.

#3 Touch everywhere

You may be on your knees and focused on their groin, but there are many other places to touch. Run your tongue, finger or a piece of fabric (your undies, the blanket, etc.) over their scrotum, inner thigh, behind the knee, arch of the foot, belly, chest, sides or upper thigh for subtle added pleasure.

#4 Eye contact

Look your partner right in the eye and let them know how horny you are. Make sure your eyebrows really express what you want them to know. This non-verbal communication allows them to make the sexiest meaning for your actions in their head. Usually, they get the sense that they’re super desirable, and that’s enough to turn almost anyone on.

#5 Blindfold

Alternately, you could go without eye contact altogether and throw a blindfold on your subject. Just the act of taking away their sight makes them feel vulnerable yet hyper-aroused, which means their body and mind will be prepped for stimulus and easy to surprise/tease.

#6 Slow it down

Fast sex is what people think they want, but slow, deliberate sex usually makes for a much hotter experience. Limiting your speed of movement will give their body a better chance to absorb everything you’re doing. It also will build suspense for the times you decide to speed it up.

#7 Mix it up

You don’t have to have your hands and mouth on shuffle the entire time – plenty of people need a lot of repetitive motion to orgasm from a BJ – but get some variety in there. Touch something, say something, do something that hasn’t been touched in a while.

#8 Ask for their help

Even if you know how to masterfully suck cock, having your partner walk you through is a great way to connect and make sure they’re getting what they want. I’m sure there’s a few things you’ve forgotten, and they’ve probably picked up some new things they enjoy along the way.

By the way, their help could be as simple as a hand on the back of the head. That definitely works, too.


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