How to tell your guy pegging just isn't for you

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My boyfriend keeps asking me to do stuff with his butt. He started by asking me to put my finger up his butt while I gave him a blowjob. Then he wanted to wear a butt plug while we had sex. Now he wants me to put on a strap on dildo and fuck him. I don’t like doing any of it, I get really grossed out, but I want to satisfy him. What should I do?

Butt Hurt

Even though I don’t think anal play is much of an issue, I still would like to congratulate you on your willingness to give your partner pleasure. Many people never leave their comfort zone when it comes to sex, but you have put in work to make sure your boyfriend is well satisfied. It is because of this that you have every right to draw the line at pegging.  

Since you’ve already done some anal play, you two have probably built up good communication skills. From your question, it’s clear that you have been holding back a bit. You need to have a conversation with him, without holding back. He should know how it makes you feel to play with his butt, and that there are some butt-centric activities you simply don’t want to do.

While you want to be honest with him, it is still important to make sure you aren’t hurting his feelings. Guys can be really sensitive about their butts. Having their partner say that it’s gross or dirty could make him feel ashamed of the pleasure he gets from anal play, which is unfair. You shouldn’t make him feel bad for the way his body works, as he probably doesn’t make you feel bad for the way yours works.

I think you two can work this out. All you need is a bottle of booze and some honest conversation.

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